Accepting What is Not in Your Control Brings Peace
Have you ever worried about something that’s out of your control, such as someone you love having a terminal illness or the uncertain, chaotic state of the world? Have you found it resolved it?
Of course not! I know this only too well. A relative of mine who is so dear to me, has been struggling for 10 years with a medical condition. Up until 2 years ago, I was constantly worried. It didn’t change their medical condition! However, it made me suffer with all that upset.
Thankfully I’ve learned how to release my worry and help myself learn to accept their condition. I’m still there supporting them, and I still care. I care, but don’t carry it. In this, energetically and mentally, there’s been a positive shift. I now have more energy, more freedom and increased focus on MY life. My dear relative is getting better, little by little, and able to move forward better than previously.
Here’s a simple and yet effective way to release and let go:
First, be aware of what is upsetting you, then acknowledge your feelings, with compassion. Sit with this acknowledgment for a few minutes (don’t dwell on it too long), and then say a phrase—with sincerity—that you know is true. Repeat the phrase 3 times.
For example:
All the worry will not change it
I am willing to accept this
It is what it is.
The last step is to imagine this situation / person in your hand, and lift your hand up and say with sincerity “I release this to You, God (Universe / The Creator…) You take care of this.
You may need to do this several times. The amazing thing is, it does help you release your upset, and brings you inner peace.
In these times of uncertainty and increased challenges, you can support yourself with this, and other tools, to help bring inner calm, reduce stress and make positive change. Coaching is an excellent way to support you in this as well.
I am offering a special opportunity for you :
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Sending each of you love and light,
Kate Heartsong
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